"And my head is down and I'm called a clown by comedians that grace/ The living stage of every page of worthless meaningless space/But I swear to you before we're though you're gonna feel our every blow/We ain't bleeding you we're feeding you but you're too f*cking slow" ("The Moon Upstairs" from Mott The Hoople's Brain Capers).
I learned my Carlin like many of us did, born later into his prolific career: I found Class Clown on vinyl among my parent’s stuff. At the age of six, there stuff was my stuff to, and I loved looking at all the big covers of those vinyl records, wondering at a world that bore no relation whatsoever to the Great Space Coaster (oh, if only I had known! exactly how much of a relation there was.
I loved the fact that, an adult was picking his nose (clean up to the elbow, it seemed), and that, from what I could glean from all of this, that this record was probably “dirty”. However, I didn’t listen to George Carlin at that time, which is good, because, like the time I tried to read Eliot when I was 15, I wouldn’t have understood a goddamned thing.
My mother was big Carlin fan, as I found out later, for a couple of reasons;
1. He was Irish.
2. He was a recovering Catholic.
These were reasons enough, given that my mother was Irish and her side of the family had been Catholic until my grandfather had a beef with a Priest over tithing, and thus, my brother and I were never baptized into any religion, thus, damning the both of us to forever walk outside of the light the Lord.
I didn’t really notice, and neither did my brother, aside from never having our friends around to play with until much later on Sundays. My parents made this up to us by getting jelly donuts on Sundays, which we would eat with big glasses of milk, while my parents read the paper, watched Meet the Press, drank coffee and smoked Marlboros.
My father, he who would fetch the donuts, was also a big Carlin fan, and, in fact, owned the aforementioned copy of Class Clown. My father, whose father was an Episcopalian for two minutes sometime in 1909, was not religious in any sense of the word, but instead an idealist for whom the world always disappointed, loved Carlin’s “fuck you” world view.
My mother and father split up about eight months after I graduated; evidentially, my mother, too, was even more of an idealist for whom the world constantly disappointed, and this included my father, and our house, and me, I felt. Nothing like working ten hours at Taco Bell and come home to a collapsing marriage that isn’t your own, but your sense of family, and self, and history.
It is necessary to give you the background on all of this, because, by this point, my brother had moved out by this point, and it was me and my father in the house that was still haunted by my mother, because it was full of her stuff. She decorated it, after all, and we had to live in the womb she’d created called home. Except that instead of warmth and home and hearth, it was rancor, confusion, and the cold spot where someone used to be.
The first order of business after my mother quit home and the town where we’d lived, was to get cable. Indiana was finally getting cable (yes, this was the Nineties!!!) One of the first things my newly single father and I did together, in our new status as a duo, was get hammered and watch George Carlin’s 1992 special Jammin’ In New York, on a rerun, as I recall…
UPDATE: Via The Deacon...
Carlin's Obituary...By Carlin.
Well said. He will be missed.
ReplyDeleteGreat post. I keep hoping that it's all a big internet hoax.
ReplyDeleteits funny, the simple things we share with people that ultimately become such an integral part of our lives...
ReplyDeletenice piece of writing, by the way...
We've lost one of the best among us. Cheers George, wherever you are.
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